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1·28 Oct 2026·on 2 year old has a different word for banana depending on which adult she's asking

Counting words in one language undercounts a child who has three. When our son was small we did the opposite exercise, out of curiosity: wrote down every word he used in any language for a week. The list was far longer than the relatives assumed. It didn't end the comparisons, but it made us care a lot less about them.

1·21 Oct 2026·on 11 year old nephew has been selling his drawings to classmates

Most schools have some line about money changing hands on campus, written or unwritten. I'd check the student handbook before deciding anything. My son went through a card-trading phase at 12; the trading was tolerated, but once cash came into it the cards got confiscated.

3·24 Sept 2026·on Looking at Gowtham Model School in Kothapet so our son can come to the family shop after class

Before planning the afternoons, check what time class 2 really finishes on a normal day versus exam days. With our son the official timing and the real pickup time were often 20 to 30 minutes apart, and that changed the whole plan.

3·19 Sept 2026·on 13 year old wants to study design. when do people start preparing for nid or nift?

A colleague's daughter cleared a design entrance last year. From what she told me, what helped most was drawing from observation every week for a few years, people, objects, streets, not a coaching course started early. The coaching was only for the last several months, to get used to the paper format. At 13 I would keep her drawing and let her keep doing the posters. That is already the practice.

1·19 Sept 2026·on I run a hostel for students. Now my son wants to stay in his college hostel

Worth asking about the fee in that case too. A colleague found the hostel fee was charged for the full year whether his son stayed or not.

6·4 Sept 2026·on Class 12 daughter has copied a topper's 4.30 am routine from YouTube

I would look at the topper's whole day, not just the alarm. My son showed me a similar video once. The person woke at 4.30, but also slept at 9 and had no school commute, because the video was made after the exams. The clip only shows the impressive part. If she watches it again with that in mind, she may see the wake-up time was never the point.

1·2 Sept 2026·on Son wants to skip college and join our distribution business after Inter

Before deciding, I would look closely at what his Saturdays involve. Is he doing the invoicing, the stock counts and the difficult customer calls, or mostly the parts he enjoys? If he has seen the dull side and still wants it, that tells you a lot more than enthusiasm at 17.

0·2 Sept 2026·on New school wants a reference from his current class teacher before we've even decided to move

We moved our son to an IB school two years ago and the new school asked for the same thing. I asked the teacher directly and told her we were looking at options, not leaving yet. She wrote it within a week and nothing changed in class. What I'd want to know from the new school is what they do with it. Ours seemed to read it mainly for attendance and behaviour comments, not academics.

0·1 Sept 2026·on Small neighbourhood school to a big campus like The Premia Academy at 10. How did yours cope?

Ask the school what the first two weeks look like for new joiners in class 5. Is there a buddy, does a teacher check in with new children, how are they placed in sections. That tells you more than the campus tour.

1·24 Aug 2026·on Any shop around Nacharam or Tarnaka with high chairs on display to try?

Thirteen years on, the high chair is the one purchase I'd spend less on. He used it seriously for maybe a year and a half, after which it held laundry.

0·21 Aug 2026·on Our department attender asked me about Annie Besant High School in Ramanthapur. I don't know that side at all

He should ask what an ordinary day's homework looks like in class 4, and try to talk to one parent at the gate, not only the office.

0·4 Aug 2026·on Daycare's holiday list has 14 closure days. How do two working parents budget leave for that?

Back in our son's daycare years we kept five days each untouched for illness and used comp-offs for the closures. The planned closures were never the hard part. The unplanned ones were.

1·23 Jul 2026·on Class 11 son took four sciences to keep every door open. Six weeks in, he's sinking

Before deciding, it might help to see where the hours are going. Ask him to note what he did each evening for a week, by subject. When my son felt buried earlier this year, it turned out one subject's assignments were taking three times their share. Dropping a subject may still be the answer, but you'd know which one.

0·10 Jul 2026·on field research trip to two cities next month. he'll be about six weeks old

I travel for demos and went on my first trip when my son was around three months. What I'd check is the boring routine rather than the plan: who does the 2 am feed on the third night if the caregiver is off, and who takes him to the doctor if he gets a fever while you're away. If both of those have a name next to them, four nights is manageable.

0·5 Jul 2026·on She's 8 and campaigning for a baby sibling. We're done at one

Only child here too, a son, and he asked from about 6 to 9. We settled on a plain answer, repeated calmly every time in the same words: 'Our family is the three of us, and we're happy this way.' No reasons and no maybe. The reasons invited debate. He also needed to hear that wanting a sibling wasn't silly. The asking tapered off once he had a regular weekend activity with the same group of children.

4·25 Jun 2026·on Maths tutor has moved the class 10 batch to 6.15 am for the whole year

Is 6.15 the only batch the tutor runs, or the only one his friends are in? If there's a weekend or late-evening option, it may be worth trying that on his own for a month before deciding.

3·21 Jun 2026·on five months old and he grabs fistfuls of my hair during every feed

The swap is what my partner ended up doing as well. The trick, as I remember it, was getting the replacement into his hand before he grabbed, not after. Once he had a fistful, there was no negotiating.

0·19 Jun 2026·on Partner goes back to work when the baby is three months old, and both grandmothers think it's too soon

You mentioned arranging your travel for the first few weeks. Think about weeks five to eight as well. For us the first month went fine because I was around. The wobble came with my first trip, when the routine had to work without me.

0·29 May 2026·on Since his class 10 marks came, my son talks only about 'data science'. Is that a degree or a job title?

I'm on the sales side, selling to the companies that hire these people. The titles change every few years. A while ago every client wanted 'big data', now it's AI-something. What doesn't change is that they want someone who can write decent code and explain a number to a business person without hand-waving. If a degree builds both, fine. I'd read the second and third year course list rather than the brochure's first page and see how much is maths and programming versus tool names.

2·19 May 2026·on My 12 year old wrote me a sick note for my own Saturday clinic

The diagnosis is accurate. Keep the eraser stamp somewhere safe. In a few years she'll deny ever making it.

3·3 May 2026·on He's 4 months old and has already sent his first work email

Most mail apps let you delay sending by a few seconds, some up to thirty. Worth switching on, at least until he starts walking. 'Noted' is the perfect reply though. It commits to nothing.

2·21 Apr 2026·on Colleague's son may join Rao's Techno School in Chandanagar for class 3, coming from an international school

IB is all we've known with our son, so the switch itself is outside my experience. One suggestion: ask the school for a week of this year's class 3 homework and put it next to what he does now. The brochure describes the approach; the notebooks show the routine.