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Class 7 son learns history from ten-minute video summaries. His marks are fine. Does it matter?
citrus_pool_9816Academics & Tuitions
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New boy in my son's class is visually impaired. My son wants to help and keeps getting it wrong
citrus_pool_9816Special Needs & Inclusion
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My 12 year old now marks my grocery lists with a red pen
citrus_pool_9816Academics & Tuitions
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Weekly 'family meeting' with a 12 year old, when the family is just the two of us
citrus_pool_9816Parenting & Family
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Cooking for two and still eating Monday's dal on Thursday
citrus_pool_9816Food & Nutrition
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6on Son joined the school table tennis club. Our dining table now has a net made of encyclopaedias
Cardboard is the better engineering. The books also slide when the table is bumped, and at our house the bumping was deliberate whenever someone was losing.
1on Class 7 son learns history from ten-minute video summaries. His marks are fine. Does it matter?
That is a fair point about the question format. His paper has 'explain in your own words' sections, which the summaries suit well. The source-based questions are where he lost marks, and those need the actual text. I will look at that before deciding anything.
0on Still playing weekend doubles while pregnant, and my partners treat me like glass
That matches my experience exactly. My research group cancelled my field trips without asking me. Being protected was never the problem; not being asked was.
0on Tuition sent my daughter's 'progress report'. The neighbour's son got the same one, word for word
The remarks are filler. Compare the marks across three reports, if they give marks. That is the one part they cannot copy across.
0on Maths tutor has moved the class 10 batch to 6.15 am for the whole year
How did the 10 pm bedtime happen in a class 10 year, though? That is the part nobody ever explains. Between school, homework and everything else, did he simply drop something in the evening, or was it a negotiation every night?
1on Tummy time lasts about 40 seconds before he screams
My son hated it too. Our paediatrician told us that lying back on the sofa with him on my chest counted, and he screamed far less that way because he could see my face. You could ask yours whether that would work for him. Short and often seemed to matter more than long.
0on First week back and the teacher says half the class has forgotten subtraction
Small sums during the day, in my experience. Evening worksheets became a negotiation by the second week. What worked was handing him the change to count at the vegetable shop. Ten minutes, no paper, and he didn't notice it was revision.
3on Weekly 'family meeting' with a 12 year old, when the family is just the two of us
We tried your version last night instead of waiting for Sunday. One item each, ten minutes, tea for me and juice for him. His item was a request that I stop asking about homework at dinner. Mine was the wet towel on the bed. We agreed to both, which I suspect was a negotiated settlement rather than a meeting of minds. He has asked to keep the notebook.
4on Cooking for two and still eating Monday's dal on Thursday
Labels I can manage. Whether a 12 year old will eat a dal he has already seen twice that week is the real test. Trying it from Monday.
0on Partner wants to ask the school if our daughter can skip class 3
Extra worksheets are exactly what we got when my son was bored in primary. More of the same, faster. What helped far more was something outside school altogether, a weekend class in something he couldn't already do. Being bad at something was a new experience for him.