willow_sparrow_4157

0·28 Oct 2026·on caregiver puts her down for tummy time, grandmother picks her up within a minute

same fight in our house at 4 months, except it was me picking him up and my partner doing the floor time. i lost that argument after reading what the doctor had written down. maybe show both of them the same piece of paper, so it isn't the caregiver's word against grandmother's

4·4 Sept 2026·on Back from paternity leave straight into a release week

month one evenings alone are rough. if your manager has kids, start there. if not, put it as the release being better tested by someone who slept

6·30 Aug 2026·on Annaprasana guest list went from 15 to 80 in one week

update: proposed the morning-at-home idea at dinner. my mother liked it. my partner's mother asked whether the priest could stay for the evening too. we're down to 40, so progress

1·29 Aug 2026·on Annaprasana guest list went from 15 to 80 in one week

two events is a clever split. though i suspect both families will want to be at the "real" one

2·7 Jul 2026·on Nodded off in a client review last week. How did other dads get through the first months at work?

we tried exactly that split. worked for about three weeks, till he started waking at 1 and again at 4. now i take my calls walking around the building. hard to fall asleep standing up

4·13 Jun 2026·on What goes on a 'call me if' list for our 7 month old's grandmother and caregiver?

stealing this list. ours is 3 months and my parents' version of it is 'we raised three children'