What goes on a 'call me if' list for our 7 month old's grandmother and caregiver?
My mother and our caregiver share the days with our son, and I do the handover before my commute. Last week he had a mild cold. My mother called me four times at work, while the caregiver, on her day, did not call once when he skipped a feed. Neither was wrong exactly. They just have different ideas of what is worth a call. I want one short list on the fridge that both follow. So far: fever above whatever number our paediatrician gives us, a fall from any height, two missed feeds in a row, and anything that worries them even if it isn't on the list. What else did you put on yours, and how did you get the older generation to accept a written list?