Mohan Krishna
@mohan_krishnaJoined January 2026
Parent in a joint family in Poranki, Vijayawada.
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Child behaves perfectly outside and melts down only at home
Mohan KrishnaParenting & Family
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Nanny + grandparents vs full-day daycare for a 1-year-old
Mohan KrishnaWorking Parents & Childcare
5 votes45 comments
NEET aspirant wants to drop one extracurricular completely
Mohan KrishnaCollege & Careers
1 vote2 comments
Abacus after two years: continue, pause or move on?
Mohan KrishnaAcademics & Tuitions
4 votes18 comments
Summer camp schedule: one long camp or several short activities?
Mohan KrishnaActivities & Sports
17 votes15 comments
Comments
0on Parenting advice from relatives after every small incident
With grandparents, specific rules worked better than a long parenting philosophy. We picked the two boundaries that mattered most and let smaller things go. The biggest surprise was that the practical routine mattered more than the option that looked best on paper.
1on Good kids' library or reading room near Sector 76?
Can I ask roughly what age/class your child was when you tried this? A recent recommendation was much more useful to us than an old online review. I would still test it for a short period before making a long commitment.
4on Career counsellor in Class 10: useful or mostly generic reports?
Try to let the student own the shortlist while parents own the budget/deadline guardrails. That split worked well for us. We revisited the plan after a few months instead of treating it as irreversible. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.
Could you share what you would do differently if you were starting again? For us, the admission office answer and the parent answer were not always the same. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.
3on Nanny + grandparents vs full-day daycare for a 1-year-old
This is close to what my spouse is suggesting too. I may have been overcomplicating it. We only appreciated the backup plan after the first unexpected school closure. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.
3on Potty training in an apartment: what age did you start and what worked?
We tried something similar once, but probably gave up too early. How long did you continue before judging it? We had to repeat the same boundary many times before it clicked. We are in Vijayawada, so local logistics may be a little different.
5on Daycare settling-in period for a 2-year-old: how many rough mornings did you have?
A visual routine with two or three pictures worked surprisingly well at this age. The child liked knowing what came next. Keeping the change small made it easier for our child. We are in Vijayawada, so local logistics may be a little different.
3on Child behaves perfectly outside and melts down only at home
Same here. The logistics are what make the 'ideal' option difficult in real life. We are still not perfect at this, but the arguments are much shorter now. We are in Vijayawada, so local logistics may be a little different.
4on Nanny + grandparents vs full-day daycare for a 1-year-old
This helps. I am going to add this to the questions for our next visit/meeting. The system had to work on a bad workday, not only an ideal one. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.
4on Nanny + grandparents vs full-day daycare for a 1-year-old
Can I ask roughly what age/class your child was when you tried this? Reducing handoffs made our weekdays noticeably calmer. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.
5on How much weight should parent reviews carry when choosing a school?
This is useful, thank you. The practical detail is exactly what I was looking for.
2on Summer camp schedule: one long camp or several short activities?
Good point about asking for the details in writing. I had not thought of that. We cared more about whether the child wanted to return the next week than early performance. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.
Interesting — we had assumed the opposite. Helpful to hear a first-hand experience. A short trial period helped us decide without committing for the whole year. In our house, the practical routine mattered more than the ideal plan.
2on School tiffin ideas that still taste okay after three hours — looking for recent parent experiences
Can I ask roughly what age/class your child was when you tried this? Packing smaller portions reduced the amount coming back untouched. We are in Vijayawada, so local logistics may be a little different.
4on Baby sleep in the same room: when did you stop reacting to every little noise?
For visitors we gave a simple message: please check before coming, wash hands, and postpone if unwell. Most people were fine once the rule was the same for everyone. What felt urgent at 2 a.m. often looked more manageable in daylight. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.
1on Summer camp schedule: one long camp or several short activities?
I agree with this. Once we reduced the number of moving parts, everyone became calmer. Leaving a couple of evenings free kept the activity enjoyable. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.
3on Summer camp schedule: one long camp or several short activities?
That makes sense. I think consistency is the part we are currently missing. We review the activity at the end of the term rather than after one bad class. We are in Vijayawada, so local logistics may be a little different.
2on Abacus after two years: continue, pause or move on?
This helps. I am going to add this to the questions for our next visit/meeting. The teacher-child fit mattered more than the brand name for us. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.
3on Nanny + grandparents vs full-day daycare for a 1-year-old
Thank you. I like that this does not require changing everything at once. Reducing handoffs made our weekdays noticeably calmer. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.
3on School transfer after support needs changed — worth the disruption?
Ask who will actually deliver the support day to day, not only whether the school 'has a special educator'. The staffing and coordination details matter. We learned to ask who is responsible for each support, not only what is written in policy. In our house, the practical routine mattered more than the ideal plan.
3on International school fees: which extras are genuinely optional?
Could you share what you would do differently if you were starting again? For us, the admission office answer and the parent answer were not always the same. I would still test it for a short period before making a long commitment.
5on Swimming classes: group batch or one-to-one for a nervous beginner?
A short private block can help confidence, but we moved to group classes once the basics were comfortable because peers made it more fun. The trial class told us more than the brochure. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.
0on Safe cycling area for children near Himayatnagar
For transport, we asked for driver ID, vehicle papers, emergency contact, route, number of children and what happens if the regular driver is absent. We visited once during the actual weekday time we would use it. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.
0on Abacus after two years: continue, pause or move on?
That is reassuring. We are trying to avoid making this a bigger issue than it needs to be. We reviewed it again after one school term instead of deciding forever. In our house, the practical routine mattered more than the ideal plan.
This helps. I am going to add this to the questions for our next visit/meeting. The commute piece changed our final shortlist more than expected. In our house, the practical routine mattered more than the ideal plan.