Is tuition really necessary in primary school if homework is getting done — looking for recent parent experiences

Amit Bansal

My child is in Class 1 and school work is currently manageable at home. Many classmates already attend tuition, which is making us wonder if we are missing something. Did you wait until there was a real need or start early for routine?

6 comments

  • oz2539

    For projects we help with planning, materials and safety, but the child's hand should be visible in the final result. Otherwise it becomes a parent competition. We reviewed it again after one school term instead of deciding forever. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.

    • Amit Bansal

      This is useful, thank you. The practical detail is exactly what I was looking for. We reviewed it again after one school term instead of deciding forever. We made the change gradually rather than all at once.

  • Ramesh Iyer

    For projects we help with planning, materials and safety, but the child's hand should be visible in the final result. Otherwise it becomes a parent competition. We are in Chennai and this came up for us last year.

  • xl8585

    Ask the child what part feels hard before adding another class. In our case it was not the subject; it was copying slowly from the board. The biggest surprise was that the practical routine mattered more than the option that looked best on paper. A short trial period helped us decide without committing for the whole year. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.

    • Koushik D

      I agree with this. Once we reduced the number of moving parts, everyone became calmer. We noticed this more clearly once we stopped comparing with classmates. I would still test it for a short period before making a long commitment.

    • Sameer Shaikh

      I agree with this. Once we reduced the number of moving parts, everyone became calmer. The biggest gain was less conflict at home, not just better marks. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.

    • oe5792

      This helps. I am going to add this to the questions for our next visit/meeting. We reviewed it again after one school term instead of deciding forever. We made the change gradually rather than all at once.

    • Kavya Srinivas

      Did your child take time to adjust, or was the improvement fairly quick? A short trial period helped us decide without committing for the whole year. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.

    • nv3406

      Good point about asking for the details in writing. I had not thought of that. The biggest gain was less conflict at home, not just better marks. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.

  • eo9470

    Ask the child what part feels hard before adding another class. In our case it was not the subject; it was copying slowly from the board. A short trial period helped us decide without committing for the whole year. We are in Hyderabad, so local logistics may be a little different.

    • Ajay Nair

      This is useful, thank you. The practical detail is exactly what I was looking for. The teacher-child fit mattered more than the brand name for us. Your child's response may be different, but this was our experience.

    • Jatin Mehra

      I agree with this. Once we reduced the number of moving parts, everyone became calmer. The teacher-child fit mattered more than the brand name for us. In our house, the practical routine mattered more than the ideal plan.

    • mh4278

      This helps. I am going to add this to the questions for our next visit/meeting. The biggest gain was less conflict at home, not just better marks. We are in Pune, so local logistics may be a little different.

    • Mohan Krishna

      Interesting — we had assumed the opposite. Helpful to hear a first-hand experience. A short trial period helped us decide without committing for the whole year. In our house, the practical routine mattered more than the ideal plan.

    • bl8546

      This is useful, thank you. The practical detail is exactly what I was looking for. We reviewed it again after one school term instead of deciding forever. I would still test it for a short period before making a long commitment.

    • Kiranmayi P

      I agree with this. Once we reduced the number of moving parts, everyone became calmer. We noticed this more clearly once we stopped comparing with classmates. We made the change gradually rather than all at once.

  • vc0930

    We waited until there was a specific gap rather than joining tuition because everyone else had. One good teacher for one weak area was more useful than a daily general tuition. My spouse had a different view initially, so we tried it for a few weeks before deciding.

  • Sravani Reddy

    For projects we help with planning, materials and safety, but the child's hand should be visible in the final result. Otherwise it becomes a parent competition. We reviewed it again after one school term instead of deciding forever. I would still test it for a short period before making a long commitment.

    • Amit Bansal

      Same here. The logistics are what make the 'ideal' option difficult in real life. The teacher-child fit mattered more than the brand name for us. In our house, the practical routine mattered more than the ideal plan.

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