How do you decide what goes to the paediatrician and what the family can settle?
Our daughter is 3 months old. Between the family group, my saved posts and my mother's call every morning, every small thing has turned into a decision. Socks or no socks in Chennai heat. Oil before the bath or after. How long to keep her upright after a feed. Whether the hiccups mean anything. Each one arrives as if it's urgent and someone will be upset if we pick wrong. My partner and I are both back at work, both tired, and we've started arguing about things that probably don't matter. What I'd like is a simple way to sort it. Which of these are real questions for her doctor at the next vaccination visit, and which are just household preference where we pick one and stop discussing? Where did you draw that line? 🤷