ukg son has started saying 'i hate you' whenever the answer is no

peach_spoon_7993

started about two weeks ago. said very calmly, then he goes back to whatever he was doing. no tears. i haven't reacted much. my mother thinks i should be stricter about it. not sure ignoring it is right either

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  • maple_hammock_5795

    We went through this at about the same age. What helped was naming the feeling back without arguing, something like 'you're angry I said no'. It faded in a couple of months. Our daughter is older now and has moved on to slamming doors, so I can't claim we solved anything.

  • mellow_veranda_6431

    ours said it most of ukg. we mostly let it pass and it faded. she says it to her cousin now, which is a whole other thing

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