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0·9 Sept 2026·on 4 month old only naps on me during my work-from-home days

Phase, mostly. Contact naps at that age are normal. What made it manageable for us was doing one nap in the cot each day, usually the first one of the morning, and letting the rest be in the carrier. Trying to move every nap at once was a disaster.

0·23 Jun 2026·on Our 20 year old has stopped coming to family weddings, and I'm the one who gets asked why

Who is bothered here: you, your partner, or the relatives? If it's only the relatives, 'she's with her friends this week' is a complete answer. You don't owe them more than that.