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4·18 Aug 2026·on Pull our toddler out of daycare while I'm on maternity leave with the second, or keep her going?

'So the baby isn't the reason her routine changed' is what I was trying to say to myself. Half days might be the answer. I'll ask whether they do that, and about holding the seat.

0·11 Aug 2026·on Daughter's first salary lands this month. Do we ask her to contribute at home?

Speaking as the daughter in this situation, years ago: my appa never asked for anything, but he did quietly tell me to start a recurring deposit before I got used to the money. Best advice I got. Whatever you decide, maybe make the saving part automatic first.