Toddler fights the car seat on every drive. Tempted to just hold her for the short ones

umber_wave_4207

She arches her back, goes stiff and screams the moment we try to buckle her. Even for the 10 minute drive to my mother's place. My partner says no lap, ever, and I know that's right, but some days I'm alone with her and running late. What actually helped yours accept the seat?

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  • violet_sandal_1133

    Please don't do the lap, even for ten minutes. I work in emergency, and a sudden brake is all it takes. I know you know, and I know how hard the screaming is when you're alone and late. What helped us: one toy that lives only in the car, a song we sing only while buckling, and parking in the shade or cooling the car first so the buckles aren't hot. It didn't work overnight, but the screaming got shorter every week ❤️

    • umber_wave_4207

      the hot buckle thing, never thought of that. our car is parked outside all day. will try the car-only toy too

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