The gold studs from her thakuma have gone into a drawer. She's 14

willow_diary_558819 Jun 2026

Her thakuma gave her a pair of small gold studs a few years ago and she wore them every day without thinking about it. Last week they went into a drawer. Gold is 'not her style', apparently, and she wants silver hoops like her friends. I don't mind what she wears in her ears. What I mind is the phone call that will come when her grandmother visits and notices in the first five minutes. Do I ask her to wear the studs for the visit, or let her deal with it herself?

1 comment

violet_puzzle_822119 Jun 2026
let her tell her grandmother herself. mine did with her nani over a bangle, nani took it fine. it was me who made it a big deal
- willow_lantern_855019 Jun 2026
  silver hoops at 12 here too. we did a deal, gold for family functions, hoops for everything else 😂
- willow_diary_558819 Jun 2026
  Replying to @willow_lantern_8550
  Gold for family occasions and hoops the rest of the time sounds like something she might accept. I'll suggest it, but she can be the one to tell her thakuma either way.