How many extracurriculars are too many for a 7-year-old?

pa6745

Right now we have chess twice a week and Abacus on Saturday. The child wants to add one more because friends are doing it. I like exposure, but I also want free play. What weekly load feels reasonable in your family?

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  • Harini V

    During a trial I watch how the coach treats the least skilled child, not the best one. That tells me much more about whether we will stay long term. We changed our approach after about a month because the first plan was too hard to sustain. We review the activity at the end of the term rather than after one bad class. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.

  • jd0583

    We keep at least two evenings completely free. Once every weekday had a class, even activities the child loved started feeling like obligations. We are in Coimbatore and this came up for us last year.

    • pa6745

      Could you share what you would do differently if you were starting again? The trial class told us more than the brochure. We only reached that conclusion after trying the other approach first.

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